Charlatan's right. There isn't anything you can do, she'll have to figure it out for herself. I watched my brother flunk out of high school despite my warnings/encouragement. He dug himself a pretty deep hole and stayed there for a few years until he decided to get his act together, once he was ready to fix his life, I was the first one there ready to give him whatever he needed. If you want to help her you're gonna have to wait until she's ready to listen, until then just keep your head down and focus on your own problems.
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