Well let me play devil's advocate for a minute since everyone else seems pretty supportive of your relationship. Why is a 23 year old woman living in a freshman, all male college dorm with you? I'm about the same age as your girl and couldn't see myself doing that. What is she doing with her life? You also said that she is very liberal and you were raised conservatively which leads to differing views on life. You're in love right now, which is great, but the little differences in opinion that you have right now that don't seem to bother you probably will later on, be warned. I wouldn't worry so much about the sexual stuff although I would think that a liberal 23 year old would have had more than 6 other partners, but if you trust her we'll go with that number. If she tells you that you're the only guy that's ever made her cum, maybe it's true and maybe it isn't; as long as the sex is good who cares? Like someone else said earlier you're in college and this is the time to have fun and expirement, so live it up! Just don't get too serious about this relationship right now. You're too young and the chances are that you two won't end up together long term anyway so just have fun with it and ride the rollercoaster. Hope this helped 
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