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I agree somewhat with the posts above but see it somewhat different. My wife and I got married and found out about three weeks later that she was pregnant (no, not before the wedding for those who care). We always discussed when the best time for us to have kids would be and we decided that if we waited until we owned our own house and had tons of money in the bank, we would end up starting our family when we were in our late 30's. Since we were already in our late 20's, we decided to go with it and see what happened. Now we have a son who is almost 1 and trying for #2. We just made a budget and stuck with it. We are by no means well off but we have enough to do the things we want.
Sometimes you just need to try something without having all the bugs worked out or you may end up missing out in the end.
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