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Zyeox · 02-03-2005, 01:29 AM

OK first off I don't understand this maybe it’s just me. My GF that I have been living with for over 4 years now are starting to talk about having a little "Z" running around the house. But every time we do she says the same shit over and over. We should wait till we both have good jobs, money, out of college(Ok my GF is studying to be a Psychologist, umm another 4 years of college would take us to 28 or 29), and own a house. Ok I understand to some degree. But what I am asking everyone is. How many ppl actually sit down and says ok Job? Check, Job Security? Check, Out of College? Check, and so on.

Is it just her or does everyone else go through this? I know some ppl don’t expect but I always thought if god felt we where ready then we would be ready. I hate that my GF always gives me this story, but she constantly says she wants children.

I mean I love my GF but I am 24 now and I feel that I would like to see my children grow up before I do get too old. Any help or insight would be greatly appreciated from the any of you. "Z"

02-03-2005, 01:29 AM	#1 (permalink)
Zyeox Psycho Location: Toledo, Ohio	When to or when not to have a baby? OK first off I don't understand this maybe it’s just me. My GF that I have been living with for over 4 years now are starting to talk about having a little "Z" running around the house. But every time we do she says the same shit over and over. We should wait till we both have good jobs, money, out of college(Ok my GF is studying to be a Psychologist, umm another 4 years of college would take us to 28 or 29), and own a house. Ok I understand to some degree. But what I am asking everyone is. How many ppl actually sit down and says ok Job? Check, Job Security? Check, Out of College? Check, and so on. Is it just her or does everyone else go through this? I know some ppl don’t expect but I always thought if god felt we where ready then we would be ready. I hate that my GF always gives me this story, but she constantly says she wants children. I mean I love my GF but I am 24 now and I feel that I would like to see my children grow up before I do get too old. Any help or insight would be greatly appreciated from the any of you. "Z"