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I personally view being "pussy whipped" as when the woman holds all the power in a relationship. I disagree with our current societies' viewpoint that men should supplicate to women in order to gain a relationship, or even just sex. I just don't see it as a healthy way to start off what could be a deep and meaningful relationship that can last years.
I would say you're pussy whipped if you answer "yes" to these questions:
1. has your girl controlled the escalation of your relationship? (if you can't answer this Question, just move on to the next.)
2. Has she ever threatened, or actually witheld emotional reward (love/sex) as a result of "bad" behavior on your part?
3. Have you ever given her a gift with an ulterior motive?
4. Do you let her get away with berating you, even in a joking manner, in front of peers?
5. Does she often ask you to do things for her? Do you do them? If you don't, does she act upset with you?
6. When you flirt with other girls, do you feel like you're getting away with something (guilty)?
7. Do you ever feel dependant on being with your girlfriend to be happy? That is, if you broke up with her right now, would you lead an unfufilled, unsatisfying life?
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