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Originally Posted by Suave
You can be whipped, it just depends how you're interacting with her. If you're just with her all the time because you two like being together, then no, that's not whipped (but people may wrongfully say so). However, if you become the personal errand boy who always does what she says even if you don't particularly want to and never speaks up, THEN you may be whipped. That situation would sincerely deserve a giant "WHOOPAH!"
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Bingo.
There is a very definate point where one ceases being devoted and starts becoming the lackey.
Here is my prime example.
You go to the store and do some shopping for her or do some task to make her life easier because you love her and want to see her happy. That is not whipped.
You go to the store,pick up her cleaning,wash her car,cut her yard,etc...but you do it because you are afraid if you don't she'll make your life hell. That is whipped. You might do the same things but there are very VERY distinct motivations. The former case is being caring. The later is being whipped.
And no women do not respect the lackey guy. As Ferris Bueller once said...
"You can't respect somebody that kisses your ass."
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Let them go try to imitate "50 cent" and other self proclaimed gangstas (it's obvious that this stems in those who idolize those who disrespect women in the media, namely rap stars)
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Disrespecting women was widely practiced long long before rap came about. broad generalizations = bad