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co-dependancy, or a lack of spine is a problem in either gender. some men notice when guys have it, but expect a woman to do it. Thus, the term "pussy whipped."
a guy i know...got that one a lot, and it was actually a good catalyst...he's taking a lot more initiative in the relationship and not putting her up on a pedastal that is unrealistic.
there's a truth behind the words and something positive can be gotten out of them...in SOME cases. that it's comonly gendered to produce the phrase in question is a tribute to the blindness of patriarchy.
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