lurkette,
i think you've already received some solid advice from the above, so i'll just back it up and say ditto. from my personal experience, i would suggest that if she is not already active in some sense, you might think about suggesting her to try a therapeutic yoga and ti-chi class, if she can find an experienced instructor in these methods. i have seen startling results in people's responses using these techniques, whether it is pure psycho-sematic or not. not only is the emotional state incredibly important, but learning techniques to focus the mind and sift out the drivel can be very useful for those in difficult situations.
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