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Originally Posted by ironmaiden7o7
Also, you should never depend on someone else for happiness, that is temporary, should they ever leave one day
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Ditto. I made this mistake with my ex-girlfriend of four years. She decided to end it.... completely shocking me as we were making plans of things we'd do during Christmas break just a few hours earlier.
I did nothing but mope after that. Luckily my parents were on my side, as was one of my very best friends. My mother constantly stressed that I need to make myself happy. I guess I never really realized that---and the way that America is today (music, tv, movies)... it makes "love" really seem to be something where you NEED that person to be happy... which isn't true. That person should enhance that happiness (greatly) that you already have within.
Sorry about the little rant there.... kind of off topic. But as others have said, she sounds very immature. If you're not getting anything out of this relationship, I'd say get out. Perhaps.. if she won't listen to you when you want to seriously discuss the relationship, write her a letter about it.. tell her everything.. about how you feel when she doesn't want to discuss things, etc.
That's my advice.. and good luck.