I think the biggest problem here is that you think it's "family first". No, not at all. If it were family first when you first asked her to do something she would tell you that she had to be with her family. Instead here she is agreeing, and then cancelling the plans on a whim. She's being a bitch.
Just stop talking to her, and fill up your time with other activities. If she makes an attempt to contact you, then try to patch things up. If she doesn't, then move on.
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