I'd like to bring this topic up again: How many of you think you would be able to pick a random person and love them after a period of time? That seems to be what happens everyday. I'm thinking, if this happens so many times per day, the statistics would show that love is completely random. No one was meant for each other. You just love someone because you........well, I don't know. I honestly think every person on this planet could love someone if they were forced to (not physically forced by gunpoint, but you know what I mean). Does anyone understand my logic here? It seems that all these people who love each other didn't pick the person specifically. They met them, or ran into them, or were introduced, or something along those lines. And now they love the other person. So couldn't anyone love anyone if you follow that same pattern? Makes me question what love really is.
For instance: First-time lovers. A guy has never dated anyone before, and he meets a girl, they date, and get married years later. They die together. I've already discredited "love at first sight," so wouldn't this technically be a random encounter with a person and you just happen to fall in love with them? That illustrates my point the best. You can learn to love anyone. Thoughts?
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