Don't put her on the defensive...approach her and initiate a conversation about this topic with a determination to remain calm and logical. No yelling, screaming, name-calling.
Talk about the problem and if she can't talk to you about the situation and your relationship than consider the inability to discuss this as the answer itself.
Repeat after me:
If she can't talk, I gotta walk.
Rinse and repeat as necessary.
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Locusts and honey ... not since John The Baptist has there been a voice like that crying in the wilderness. ... Every man knows he is a sissy compared to Johnny Cash -- Bono.
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