That comment made by that guy was HORRIBLE to have made to your classmate. . . very rude.
He must be very dumb or just dumbly honest to have said such a thing to her
. . . There is beauty in every woman, everyone is different, even every porn star is different, not all of them are perfect either . . .
however:
hmmmm . . . porn is a push button issue for many couples . . . It's all up to the individual couple . . . Some people make it into a big issue, some people don't talk about it and just HIDE it from their SOs' (which i think is awful!) . . . some people watch it together . . . it's a very individual thing . . .
I for one, watch porn by myself, we watch it together, he watches it rarely by himself, but prefers to watch it together from the mutual turn on . . . We've done this fairly often in the 3 years we've been married . . . sometimes watching it alot, sometimes not for weeks . . . just when we feel we're in the mood . . . I personally have no problem with watching porn, I used to be insecure about it, but then it was such a turn on . . . my insecurities fell to the wayside . . . There are alot of fears that woman have about watching porn and enjoying porn in their sex lives . . .
Watching attractive people have sex on a TV is just about sexual exploration: Let me clear up some misnomers about watching porn:
It doesn't mean your SO thinks the porn star is hotter
It doesn't mean your SO needs porn to get turned on
It doesn't mean you aren't pleasing him(or her) in bed
It doesn't mean you are in ANY way inadequate
All watching porn is that fact that it's sometimes exciting to see people making love in lots of different positions and places . . . (and trust me, you learn alot and gets alot of new ideas)
For us and for me, watching porn has been a positive and enjoyable thing . . .
I think that people need to be honest with their SO's, some woman think that men looking at porn/nude pics is disrespectful, some woman don't care . . . Some woman forbid their SO's to look at porn, causing the guy to hide the fact that they do . . . it can be an issue if not spoken about openly and with candor.
So, i guess my advice would be . . . however you feel about porn, talk about it openly with your SO . . . let your feelings be known on the subject, either way you feel . . .
Peace, sweetpea