i have both and use both, variety is the spice of life!
i really like some of the new realistic materials they're using with dildos (have yet to find a realistic skin vibe i love). if you go to an actual store (versus ordering online) a lot of the "like skin" ones have samples on the packaging that you can touch to feel what they're like. just make sure you get one with a nice solid center, otherwise they're too bendy imo.
silicone is also nice, but a lot of women really like metal and glass too. just really depends on her preference.
as to what is better, vibe or dildo...depends on the girl and often on her mood. sometimes all the bells and whistles of a good vibe are tons of fun, sometimes it's more work than i wanna bother with. or if i'm feeling sensitive for whatever reason, i generally go for a dildo over a vibe.
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