Cancel her Cosmo Subscription.
"How to Gain Control of your Man by Playing with Sex!!!" 
Seriously tho I would just talk to her upfront about it. A lot of women don't understand the power of a man's sexuality, and how it impacts their relationships. Many women think that male sexuality is just self-serving pleasure-chasing or worse when it really is a cornerstone to emotional attachement to a person in most men. You play with a man sexually you're playing with emotional fire. Just tell her how this hurts you and make her understand how you're different. Don't make it a Mars-Venus thing, make it personal and tell her it actually hurts you and makes you feel rejected. If she isn't caught in her own bullshit or some issue she hasn't disclosed she should stop her behavior since it's new and shouldn't be too hard to break.
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I happen to like the words "fuck", "cock", "pussy", "tits", "cunt", "twat", "shit" and even "bitch". As long as I am not using them to describe you, don't go telling me whether or not I can/should use them...that is, if you want me to continue refraining from using them to describe you. ~Prince
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