Originally Posted by Coppertop

Man, that sucks. I haven't been in your shoes but I'd leave her. Your child will be better off with 2 parents who live apart than growing up in a home where his mother is with different men and his father isn't happy. And if you're going to split it's better to do it when the child is young. Absolutely do not wait until the child is old enough to be really self aware and can imagine that your splitting would be his fault. And never ever talk bad about your wife in front of him in the future. That accomplishes nothing. I know people who've stayed together "for the kids' sake" and it didn't work out at all. Everyone was miserable. I wish you the best of luck.