While this is up here... It seems like you knew what you wanted from the beginning.
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Originally Posted by StormBerlin
I don't want to jump into a new relationship yet, but I do want to be able to go out and have a good time when i feel like it  Trust me, i'm not locking my self in my apartment, in fact my cat is starting to get pissy because she's constantly home alone |
In any case, I've had many fuck-buddies. Some work out well, some don't. An important part of it is establishing what you both want in the beginning and defining the bounds of your relationship. Could it ever be serious? Do both of you know how long you could possibly want to last? Are you going to be having sex with other people as well? You want to make sure you get those type of questions out there. I had good friend of mine that I was sleeping with back when I was 16 (she was 17) and she ended up getting attached, but I told her in advance that I wasn't going to have a serious relationship with her so she didn't take it badly and there were no hard feelings.