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Old 01-26-2005, 09:54 PM   #76 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Hardknock
I'm not going into too much detail over 'cheating wife's' post, because it wouldn't be too nice. Frankly, I feel that I don't need to know your side of the story. You were fucking around your husband’s back MUTIPLE times while he was being a responsible father and taking care of his son. That's all the information I need. Just be glad you aren't my wife because your ass literally would be out on the street, no doubt. As someone else said, he must still love you. I've seen the same pattern with so many women so many times. So I do happen to know "jack." Your "condition" in my opinion is total bullshit. Cheating on your husband once and the both of you going to therapy to work it out is one thing, but MUTIPLE times?? Come on. You knew exactly what you were doing. Your husband must want very much for the relationship to work out so his son can have a mother. That alone demands respect. Something you obviously don't want to give him. You two are both better off beig seperated. Just make sure your son is taken care of.

Now I'm not trying to deliberately be an asshole about it, I'm just calling this like I see it because I've seen this so many times and they all end up the same way. Disastrous. For your son's sake, I hope you get it together.
thats what i was going to say, 'cept a little meaner

no excuses. cheating is cheating, the situation that drove you to it doesn't matter. if things were *that* bad, why didn't you seek out a divorce or a separation or something. it makes it even worse that you have a kid. now you're not just screwing up your relationship, but you're possibly screwing up the future life of your kid. grow up.
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