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Originally Posted by Suave
Not entirely true RatBastid. If you know the kind of person people like, you can act that way and they then have a higher chance of liking you. Hell, you could even change your whole personality if you care to.
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Yeah, but would you like yourself afterwards? That's a lot more important than being liked by others.
I used to be pretty shy, I guess I thought that noone noticed me or cared what I had to say. At some point I got tired of not being noticed and started to speak up. It turns out that I'm a pretty likable guy. It all comes down to self confidence, knowing that you have something valuable to offer other people. I wish I could tell you where to get some, but you'll have to find it yourself.