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Originally Posted by theusername
You can change your personality but do you really want to? I'm pretty quiet myself but at the same time there's not a whole lot I would change about myself socially. College is tough at first, it takes awhile to be comfortable, took me months. I find that I prefer to have a few close friends. Groups usually form from there, meeting friends of their friends...
Don't force things or you may not like who you become or the friends that you make. Just be yourself let things happen and do what makes you happy.
Should you be more outgoing? Sure, can't hurt. But don't change who you feel that you are, cause if your genuine then im pretty sure you already like who you are.
Thats just my 2 cents
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I never said you should, just that it's possible. And also, I hear the Japanese culture is greatly accepting and comfortable with quiet people and silence in conversations. You could always learn Japanese and live there as a Gaijin.
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