Look, the bottom line of your question is: how do I make people like me.
Here's the answer: You can't. People either like you or they don't. The ones who like you like you, and the ones who don't don't. That's both the good news and the bad news.
That means you can quit worrying about how to make them like you, and quit worrying about whether they will or not. It means you can just relax and be yourself, and let the ones who are going to like you like you.
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