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Hello everyone, the 'cheating' wife here, thought i'd add some of my own thoughts...
Read some of the posts, something i don't understand, because you only know his side of the story, and just what he's shared. fair? i think not. and there is always so much more to the relationship, in my opinion doesn't justify any of you in anyway to influence his thoughts. i understand he came here looking for support and needed to console in someone somehow... but as he did tell me about this, i expressed my dislike and advised him to seak professional help. He needs an unbiased opinion, someone who will help him make his own decisions and be there to just listen.
I am a very good mother and do not in anyway deserve to have my son taken from me i love my husband very much and although I have made unforgivable mistakes in our relationship, i am paying the pentalty. Yes i'm in therepy to help understand who i am and change, it is my constant goal to better myself.
The bottom line is that although we have a special bond between us, and always will, we shouldn't live together. My love for him is as the father of my child. No one can judge me or tell me how to be, there is only one true judge and that is myself.
Thanks for giving my husband advise but please keep in mind you don't know jack about us...
Us seperating has at least led me to 'growing up' and so i will never again stoop to 'cheating' but i won't get into that...
life is about personal growth and right now my top priority is being the person i know and want to be so that i can be the best mother possible to my son and do my part in preparing him for life, cause its a hard nasty road...
I want nothing but my husband and i to be able to be friends and raise our son together.
So please no more negative comments. We're doing fine, happily seperated and our son is happy, we're all happy doing it our way... conventional or not
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