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hognose · 01-25-2005, 08:37 PM

Hmmm.....I think the key is ongoing positive comments but limiting the over use of certain words/phrases/situations. Not sure if I am conveying this properly but I think it is important to reserve certain "things" so as to retain their special/significant qualities. Common usage becomes just that...common. I tell my wife I love her...wow..I don't know how many times each day....but catching her in the right moment and telling her how beautiful she is can have a really strong impact. For some it is commenting on beauty, for others it may be smackin her ass, whatever it is, we should all pay attention and know what little thing it is we can do or say that tells our SO how special they are to us. I am sure those special words, comments, touches, vary for each of us. But....the key is to use them and know when your partner will appreciate it. Just my lengthy .02

01-25-2005, 08:37 PM	#46 (permalink)
hognose Upright Location: wouldn't you hate to know	Hmmm.....I think the key is ongoing positive comments but limiting the over use of certain words/phrases/situations. Not sure if I am conveying this properly but I think it is important to reserve certain "things" so as to retain their special/significant qualities. Common usage becomes just that...common. I tell my wife I love her...wow..I don't know how many times each day....but catching her in the right moment and telling her how beautiful she is can have a really strong impact. For some it is commenting on beauty, for others it may be smackin her ass, whatever it is, we should all pay attention and know what little thing it is we can do or say that tells our SO how special they are to us. I am sure those special words, comments, touches, vary for each of us. But....the key is to use them and know when your partner will appreciate it. Just my lengthy .02 __________________ My name is George, I have a hat.