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I have cheated. and have been cheated on in the past. Nothing makes it ok.
And cheating is in my mind anything that you would not a) want them to find out about! b) anything that is clearly a violation of the relationship.
I can say all I want to say about never doing it again but ultimately none of you will understand what the poeple have gone through to get the point of realizing the affects it has.
Each situation is different as the people are always different. there is no exact same situation because there is no exact same people out there. I made a mistake that i will have to live with the rest of my life. And the person who cheated on me the same.
That in itself regulates to me making the decision of importance.
If I am ever to be in a relationship where there is a commitment again. I will make it the important decision that I will not put anything above that relationship.
I voted no. its just isn't worth it.
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"Computer games don't affect kids; I mean if Pac-Man
affected us as kids,we'd all be running around in
darkened rooms, munching magic pills and listening
to repetitive electronic music."
-Kristian Wilson, Nintendo, Inc, 1989
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