I realized quite early that I didn't have bad luck with women, even though I first thought so; it was just that the women that I'd been dating were the type that were attracted to bad guys. Apparently they saw me as one.
I stepped back, took a look at relationships past, and never made the same mistake again. I don't have much respect for that type of women. They're bound to get you into trouble. Recently, this view has become stronger. My cousin had to flee the country, he had a 20000 US$ price tag on his head. Just because his girlfriend was complaining about him trying to go straight, and people not "respecting" him anymore. She said she'd break up with him if he didn't do something about it. He really loved her, and went to talk to some of the back-stabbers. Violence ensued.
I told him what I thought about it. His girlfriend better keep her mouth shut in the future if she loves him.
So, if you're a guy getting frustrated over being overlooked for being "nice", just ride it out. You're not missing anything.
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The above was written by a true prophet. Trust me.
"What doesn't kill you, makes you bitter and paranoid". - SB2000
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