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Originally Posted by chickentribs
I'm suprised nobody has defined "cheating", because I am sure that there are a number different ideas in everybody's heads that have posted. Intercourse, oral sex, spending a night w/ no sex, making out, developing a relationship on the web, flirting at work, appt at a massage parlour, masterbating thinking of someone else or using a Playboy... Some of you who have said NEVER may have very well already cheated based on another's interpretation.
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I think the general agreement (and I might be wrong) at the TFP is that cheating is doing anything that you wouldn't want your partner to know about, or that you keep from them because you know they wouldn't like it, or because you're not sure how they'd react. Basically doing anything with another person, it doesn't have to be sexual, so it could be going out for dinner with someone, and choosing not to tell your partner because they might not like it.
Obviously people with open relationships or who have agreed on their own rules and boundaries can do things that people in more traditional relationships can't.