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Well Kyp you have one thing going for you... She stayed 8 months... The chica that used me only kept me around for 4. I guess I wasn't so useful after all.
Seriously though, 8 months man. There has to be something good about you to keep you around for 8 months. There has to be some redeeming quality. The thing that got me through my 'horrible breakup' was sitting down and thinking about all the good times I'd had over the last 8 months. Be it sex or nights out on the town or nights just spent holding each other. I'm sure you weren't miserable for the entire time, and if you had better than 50% happy days, then you came out ahead on the deal. After you have the happiness fixed in your head, take a look at what you learned from this, and how you have changed over the last year. I'm talking about taking serious stock of who and what you were before you got together with this girl, and you aren't allowed to look through the filter of your experience.
Above all else, remember that she didn't do this out of some vendetta, she wasn't out to get you from the start, she just had goals and objectives that didn't include your happiness. She didn't pick you out of the crowd because she knew that she could ruin you, she picked you because out of all of the men around her, you looked like you would make her the happiest.
In her own little twisted and fucked up way, she was telling you that you are a special person. Never forget that.
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I'm married now, so the only thing in my house that pulls out now is the couch. 
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