I hear where you're coming from. I definetly apply more of my brain when I'm courting than in an actual relationship...probably a fault of mine, but it seems like once they like you it's kind of on autopilot. Sure, you still think of ways to make them happy and such, but it doesn't seem to carry the same amount of danger at all, and requries less trickery.
Probably one of my favorite parts of any relationship is that first kiss, it's pretty indescribable. Of course, that's a poor reason to break up with someone! And I'm not a cheater, so I'll let what happens happen. But if I did end up single for some reason, there would be that to keep me busy.
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