I don't know but to me, and I think I've said this before in tfp so forgive me for the repetition, when you love someone they are beautiful to you, in more ways than one. I can't help it myself. I always find "beauty" in the people I love. I even feel compelled to say it to them. I'd say it's just a natural thing to feel and say to your loved one. And mean it. I guess not everyone's built the same. But it's a shame...it's a great feeling.
Maybe it's important to msnea because she feels this way about her husband. I don't know, here I am guessing.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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