If you are considering fucking a stranger, or a short-time acquaintance, or a male buddy, then you will probably have to live with being nervous. On the other hand, if you plan to get to know someone well before jumping in the sack, maybe you'll be less nervous.
It's nice to have a drink or two to take the edge off, but I wouldn't advise getting shit-faced. You need to be in full control of yourself.
Out of curiousity, how did you get over the nervousness in the beginning with the guy you recently broke up with?
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