Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - View Single Post - To Cheat or NOT to Cheat that is the question

Val_1 · 01-16-2005, 07:02 PM

I've never never never understood people cheating on their spouses/SOs. Everyone has urges, the only difference is whether or not you control them. I was married for 10 years. Been tempted many times, had womeon come on to me many times. Had the oppurtunity many times. I never once cheated.

I just had this conversation with a (not too close) friend in the bar last weekend. I couldn't believe his stance of "just make sure you don't get caught". I thought he was joking at first. When I found out he wasn't, I confronted him, thinking he would back down on his from his infidelity stance. He didn't. He was completely serious and very firm on his stance.

Keeping that in mind, I'm completely open to anything that people choose to do with their relationships as long as everying one involved is cool with it. Swinging is fine. Doing it behind your SOs back is not. So, in short, my big peeve is dishonesty.

01-16-2005, 07:02 PM	#42 (permalink)
Val_1 Addict Location: In a State of Denial	I've never never never understood people cheating on their spouses/SOs. Everyone has urges, the only difference is whether or not you control them. I was married for 10 years. Been tempted many times, had womeon come on to me many times. Had the oppurtunity many times. I never once cheated. I just had this conversation with a (not too close) friend in the bar last weekend. I couldn't believe his stance of "just make sure you don't get caught". I thought he was joking at first. When I found out he wasn't, I confronted him, thinking he would back down on his from his infidelity stance. He didn't. He was completely serious and very firm on his stance. Keeping that in mind, I'm completely open to anything that people choose to do with their relationships as long as everying one involved is cool with it. Swinging is fine. Doing it behind your SOs back is not. So, in short, my big peeve is dishonesty. __________________ I feel sorry for people who don't drink. When they wake up in the morning, that's as good as they're going to feel all day. -Frank Sinatra Last edited by Val_1; 01-16-2005 at 07:05 PM..