I found it interesting that "bing bing" phrased the question (in part) "when two members of the TFP are dating in real life". I am a member of TFP and am not dating, instead, I've been with my husband for 16 yrs. (married almost 12 yrs.).
I don't refer to my husband by name (or rather screen-name, because he doesn't have one) simply because he isin't on TFP. He is in a sense part of the TFP because he likes to peruse the site signing in under my name, but is too shy to actually post or make himself known. He loves the TFP as much as I do but is not much of a reader or writer (although quite intelligent) and therefore finds it hard to participate.
Unlike Lurkette and Ratbastid (only using you guys as an example because you're prominate here as one of the known couples!), we are conventional (whatever that means!) in the sense that we are in a strictly monogamous relationship, but, like them, we are very close with a healthy sex life. One of these days we might liven things up by posting pictures in Exhibition, then my SO would have to let himself be known to all of you! Until then, it's just me and my references to him, sorry to contradict the thought of TFP couples blowing their own horns...
Ali
__________________
'Beware the Jabberwock, my son! The jaws that bite, the claws that catch! Beware the Jubjub bird, and shun, The frumious Bandersnatch!'--Jabberwocky, Lewis Carroll
"You cannot do a kindness too soon because you never know how soon it will be too late."--Ralph Waldo Emerson
|