My wife and I are always laughing & making jokes but we know each other and don't have a problem with some humor during sex. We talked about it and if someone made a joke at an unwanted time, the other said something. There are also different times during sex in which laughter is just going to do much more harm than good. If she is about to orgasm and you tell her that her tits are swinging to the same beat as the song on the radio, don't be surprised at the angry reaction. Likewise, you never want to make her laugh while getting head by saying something like my dick keeps hitting your tonsils.
Basically, talk to her and agree when to interject humor. If she says never, you either need to say OK or find someone else.
__________________
A little rudeness and disrespect can elevate a meaningless interaction to a battle of wills and add drama to an otherwise dull day. Calvin
|