i agree with xim, what kind of silliness are we talking about? if you talk to her like you would guys in the locker room, it might not just be a turn-off, but offensive.
personally, it depends a lot on my mood. if i'm feeling fun and playful, being silly just adds to it and makes the sex that much better. if i'm looking for passion and romance--it makes me feel like i'm sleeping with a twelve-year-old. the last thing i want to hear is "mmmm...boobies!" and have him blow a raspberry between my tits when i'm in the mood to hear him tell me i'm beautiful and he loves me as he caresses my body.
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