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Bang her like a screen door in a hurricane
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let her make some of the moves
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<b>P</b>ersonally, I'd prefer to become a girls friend before I get into a more sexual relationship with her. Becoming her friend ensures that factor of liking her and thinking she's a cool person etc. Since yall are friends and there's sexual tension, I'd say this is optimal opportunity for action.
<b>T</b>hat said, I'd like to point out something: If you start having sexual relations with this person you will start to have 'feelings' for her -if you haven't already. She, on the other hand, might consider you as nothing more than a <i>booty call</i>. Don't start dwelling on your feelings for her even if it seems like she has started getting attatched to you. Not dwelling will help you think straight instead of being forced in a direction by your emotions. It would be best if you started to have, show, and act upon your feelings as if to synchronize them with hers. [No matter how un-natural this may be, I still think it's best.]
<b>T</b>ypically here's how I think things will play out.
-you'll get into sexual relations with her
-she'll like it but will want to have you as her 'booty call' since you were her friend and she can count on you
-you'll start to 'fall in love' with her
-she'll 'fall in like' with you... but will still want her other guys
-you lose
Hopefully I'll be wrong.
<b>H</b>ere's how I'd like to see things played out.
-you'll get into sexual relations with her but will be sure to keep in mind not to hold her captive in your island of love
-you'll let her do what she wants with other guys and will be patient by not letting your feelings exist (get the best of you).
-she'll like your luvin and your booty calls
-you wont start to fall in love with her -cuz it takes some girls 'time' to fall in love; instead, you'll synchronize your feelings with hers (or at least act like it) and PACE YOURSELF
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