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That's some mood swing there, champ.
I think you need to sit down and do some long hard deep thinking about what it is you're looking for, not just from this relationship, but from relationships in general. You're coming off like you have no idea what you want, though I'm only going on the little bit you present here. If you want to rekindle something romantic with this girl, I'd urge caution. Never, ever go into a relationship with reservsations, hoping your SO will change in time. It does not work that way, and it's not worth the time and heartache to try and fail. It has to be all or nothing on both counts, or you might as well not bother, in my opinion.
It's a fact of life in any relationship that there will be time clashes and scheduling problems. What it comes down to is how much you're prepared to bend around these things in order to be with her. Sounds like that wasn't very much in your case. And that's cool, just don't kid yourself that you could have forced it to work out, or could again. You had very specific reasons why you were dissatisfied, and it wouldn't necessarily be the best thing for her to compromise by giving up her activities, if that would have made her unhappy. You can't make a happy relationship between two unhappy people.
All that said, I'm sure you could still be friends with her, if you went back to her open-handed and genuine, but don't expect anything more than that.
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