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Originally Posted by ratbastid
It's all about timing. Sometimes it's fun to be goofy and funny in the bedroom. I don't think I'd say MOST of the time, though.
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Exactly... the timing is important. But what is more important is becoming comfortable with who you are and those feeling being reciprocated.
Playtime in the bedroom is an integral part of a relationship. It should be lighthearted and fun.
That in turn will bring more passion.
Seriousness all the time would be quite boring to me. I like being able to celebrate that feeling of just being alive and so close with another person. That in itself is enough to make me happy.
Don't get me wrong.. there is a limit. Some people limits are higher than others. And some people don't find humor/goofballs attractive at all. You have to be able to "read" the other person to be able to tell when enough is enough. I guess being able to this will come with age and experience. When the passion reaches a certain point. It is time to stop joking and get down to business.
