Having just turned 40 myself, the past few years, I've looked around at other women, watching them desperately trying to stay young, and I honestly don't understand it. With age, comes wisdom, and confidence, and a sexiness that girls don't possess. celebrate that, and get to know that in yourself.
Now... He mentioned in passing that another woman was beautiful, which bothers you more, that he mentioned the other woman, or that he's never told you. Men are sometimes stupid, ummm forgetful, they finally got the I love you part figured out, but it's the other little things they forget, he knows you are beautiful, he might just not think to mention it.
My parents have been married 45 years, dad is 72, and loves (for reasons I will not comprehend) my mother more than anythig in the world, he's also go an eye for the ladies, and will look, my mother, at 73, who is far from her 20s, will often point out women for dad to ogle. It's almost cute in a twisted sort of way.
Look in the mirror and tell yourself that youa re beautiful, you don't need to hear it from anyone if you beleive it.
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