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has he never said you were beautiful? ever? cause i'm thinking, if he's not ever told you you were beautiful, in the 27+ years you've been together (married & courting and all that) then there's a problem. but if you two are just in a marriage rut, having been together for so long, then yeah, he probably is looking at her and going "wow, she looks like a girl who is thinking only of herself and not the kids/morgage/car/soccerpractice/lunchmoney" if you've been together that long i'd say that you either really love each other, or are really stubborn in not giving up the marriage.
also, think about this- he might not have meant it the way it came out. i know that sometimes my mom will say things, and my dad will take them a TOTALLY different way. perhaps he meant that she was beautiful because of the way she acted, or because she reminded him of you when you were younger.
ASK HIM!! the fact that you're running to the message boards instead of sitting down and talking with him rationally gives me the vibe that you two aren't as close as 24 years of marriage would build- perhaps there's issues behind your screen. besides, what man is STUPID enough to tell his WIFE that another woman is beautiful? (unless he know's your'e into checking out other chicks... but that's a different forum)
go talk to your HB... be calm, don't jump to conclusions, and figure out what's going on. communication!
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