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Zenir · 01-13-2005, 06:37 PM

I believe you should be comfortable in bed to me this make it that much more pleasurable and free. I think that being funny is a great thing and being goofy has its times. I don't think that perhaps some goofiness should be done in the bedroom. A lot of people take time to feel comfortable with a sexual partner and also with their body and being goofy about them can sometimes put them off. I have always found that making pranks of yourself tends to lighten the atmos and creat less misunderstandings.

Overall however I would have to agree it really depends on the mate. Perhaps explaining that to them and that you only wanted them to be comfortable might help?

01-13-2005, 06:37 PM	#10 (permalink)
Zenir Tilted Location: Fairbanks, Alaska	I believe you should be comfortable in bed to me this make it that much more pleasurable and free. I think that being funny is a great thing and being goofy has its times. I don't think that perhaps some goofiness should be done in the bedroom. A lot of people take time to feel comfortable with a sexual partner and also with their body and being goofy about them can sometimes put them off. I have always found that making pranks of yourself tends to lighten the atmos and creat less misunderstandings. Overall however I would have to agree it really depends on the mate. Perhaps explaining that to them and that you only wanted them to be comfortable might help? __________________ Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success.-Albert Schweitzer, philosopher, physician, musician, Nobel laureate (1875-1965)