It's all about timing. Sometimes it's fun to be goofy and funny in the bedroom. I don't think I'd say MOST of the time, though.
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Originally Posted by HalcyonDaze
I do joke about them, and joke in general, often because I thought it would defuse tension. Apparently it just defuses desire.
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Same thing. In bed you WANT some tension. Things shouldn't be 100% comfortable and relaxed. That's how you want to feel going to sleep, not having sex. There should be an edge to it, something should be a little hightened or elevated about the moment. Having Mr. Laff Riot in bed goofing around might take away the tension, but it probably makes her at least a little self-conscious.