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Integrity, that's the key here. What's the contract? She's said NO. you've stayed, and repeated your love for her and her alone. That's the contract. Men of integrity honor their contracts, whether written, spoken or implied. Contracts CAN change over time, but they don't HAVE to. If the agreement changes then you can re-address that issue.
There's another thread on here about 3-somes that you would do well to read, in addition to this one. I haven't posted on that one, mostly because it seemed mostly hypothetical, and it didn't matter to me, but since I'm here, here's my lousy $.02 ....
Threesomes are great. IF you both agree and IF you are both completely comfortable, and IF the communication line is strong enough to lay down ground rules for all involved. No always means NO, and ANYone is free at ANY time to STOP proceedings with no hard feelings.
At this point, again, she's already stopped the proceedings. And frankly, Cynthetiq, while I agree with your post in total, the first phrase about lobster doesn't quite work with Logic. The fact is if you have a BALANCED meal, you CAN live off the same one indefinately. (God knows I'd certainly want a pizza now and again myself!)
Stick with the agreement, or leave the relationship completely. Fact is you already know that, or you wouldn't have put it up for discussion. (either that, or you're having a great time just seeing what other people really think!) Either way, my answer's the same. < grin >
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