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Originally Posted by energus
Not anouncing is hiding, in my opinion.
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thats where i think the hangup is between one side of this and the other. i believe that zen_tom hit the nail on the head in a very zenlike way.
why does one have to either announce their sexual orientation to everyone or hide it, telling noone? why can it not be something normal? something that isn't even a very big deal, nothing to sweat over? something talked about when it comes up but something that isn't a controvertial issue? the obvious answers would be that there are intolerant people. can't we ignore these people? if someone who is bi - or homosexual has to run their life in one of the two extremes above, isn't that what the intolerant people want? preventing someone who isn't the "default" choice from living a normal frickin life?