When I first started learning Japanese, I had a hard time remembering Japanese friend’s names. I also had a hard time telling them apart. I felt bad, but I just was not used to it.
Now I have no problem remembering such things, and am able to see Japanese girls as attractive. But seeing Asian girls as attractive was not something I noticed right away, mostly due to liking fair-skinned blood hair blue eye girls. You have to admit Asian girls are far away from this look.
My Japanese classes are wildly different though. There are students in there who you would think, have learned the language just to pick up Japanese girls. To the point where, even when an ugly (at least I find unattractive girl, it is the teeth sometimes) is around, as long as she is Asian, they go nuts.
So there is something there, that American guys want. To be fair, I have heard a few women, normally a little older; have an interest for a Japanese guy. Higher fashion awareness and “pretty Asian babies.”
Personally, the most attractive thing about Japanese girls? I have gotten more sandwiches, massages, and cookies, from my Japanese friends who are girls, then all my past girlfriends combined. They just really enjoy taking care of people, and they enjoy small things that Americans do unconsciously, like opening doors for people. These personally traits are attractive, at least in my opinion.
But as I have told some guy friends of mine, Japanese girls are cute, but not sexy. They just, on an average do not have the T and A that American girls do. Nor do they have the sexy personality that American girls do.
Anyway, this is the information I can add to this forum. From my personal experiences.
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