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Love not only has to be between two people that are compatible, but the timing has to be right as well. She is still caught up in that me, me, me mentality which is perfectly normal for someone of her age. She will either grow out of it or she won't. Most people seem to get over this by age 25. Some sooner, some later. I had a girlfriend I was all hung up on in college. We lived together for 10 months, and it still remains the most intense sexual relationship of my life. Unfortunately the other parts of the relationship never developed. Once I went home for the summer she was sleeping with a guy I knew peripherally a month later. She broke up and told me. I ended up stomping him just because he broke trust with me, but he really did me a favor. She was in no way ready for the kind of relationship we were headed for (talking marriage), and it would have ended in divorce.
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