Originally Posted by gentlesoul43

There's a reason why all of us rarely end up with our first boyfriend/girlfriend.

Things change and people change. For first timers, the intensity they feel clouds the reality for a while, and they think its forever. But the intensity will fade and we all stick by our decisions because of commitment, not feelings. We all learn after the 2nd or 3rd relationship that it takes more than mere feelings to sustain a relationship.

Its not her fault as much as its not ours when we change our minds about anything we do. There's nothing psychotic about her. She's just as human as anyone of us.

I do wonder about the rest who jumped at her so quickly though..