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Originally Posted by HalcyonDaze
She is still nuts for me. She initiates sex the first time, comes to visit over Christmas (I'm from Ohio, so that's quite a haul), etc etc. She says "I love you" first, says she wants to be together forever, and plans where we're going to live after we get married.
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Classic psycho-chick behavior right there, I know because I used to date them exclusively. At first she's all over you, planning your wedding and what you'll name your kids. Then she backs off because she needs "space" (which usually means she has a new boy toy she wants to play with). A few months and she'll be jumping you again, after she's tired of her new plaything, and that's when you have to be strong and tell her to take a hike.
How old is this chick? I'm guessing around 20. She's immature and probably messed up in the head (clingy, controlling, thinking she has to play head games), and she definitely doesn't know what she wants. Which is fine for that age but I wish I had had someone to tell me to not go back to a girl or get hung up over her when she does something like this, back when I was in college.
Cut your losses, move on, have fun. Watch out for the warning signs from now on though, any girl who starts planning weddings and naming kids after a few months is usually bad news.