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Originally Posted by forkies
okay, many people have stated intelligence has a lot to to with those you find attractive, do you feel at all arrogant thinking "hmm, he's/she's too dumb for me"?
several times i've had the chance to be with someone only to decide against it because we did not have similar levels of intelligence. i had a hard time letting myself consider that an acceptable reason to not pursue relationships.
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Well what is an acceptable reason then? If you don't like someone, you don't like them. You don't have to deliberate over the reasons and try to justify it. A relationship is a mutual condition, and there is no reason that is unacceptable for breaking it off; standards differ between people (someone might think you're shallow if you break it off because of looks, or whatever) but it's a personal choice and the opinions of other people, aside from that of the other person in the relationship mean jack shit.