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sillygirl · 01-07-2005, 10:30 AM

Ok. I think you have good intentions, but that you're also on a bit of a power trip. I also agree with someone who said it seems like she might want YOU to deal with this.

Beating the guy's ass will not fix a problem. Especially if he presses any charges against YOU. Then you're in jail, and he's free to do this again, while laughing in your face.

I've been that girl. It was a friend I had trusted and considered one of my GOOD friends. He was stone sober after I was so drunk I couldn't walk and wanted to pass out. It wasn't just trying to finger me. I guess that night people kinda saw what was going on and still didn't do anything. Took me a while the next day to remember everything that had gone on, after people had told me what they'd seen.

There were plenty of people who wanted to just kick his ass. People who could've done it and not been found or caught. I called the cops, but didn't file a report. Just asked questions. I should've filed a report. I should've taken his ass to court. But ya know what? I didn't. And he's disappeared. The large amount of friends we shared pretty much told him to fuck off. I don't think anyone knows where he is. Not sure. Did he learn anything? I don't know. But he's not here anymore.

Go with the people who are saying confront him if you want, but about the issues you have of not trusting him. IF you do it in a public place, make sure that people are willing to back YOU up if he tries anything. Otherwise, tell him you want to have a mature talk about what happened, and KEEP it mature.

01-07-2005, 10:30 AM	#48 (permalink)
sillygirl Newlywed Location: at home	Ok. I think you have good intentions, but that you're also on a bit of a power trip. I also agree with someone who said it seems like she might want YOU to deal with this. Beating the guy's ass will not fix a problem. Especially if he presses any charges against YOU. Then you're in jail, and he's free to do this again, while laughing in your face. I've been that girl. It was a friend I had trusted and considered one of my GOOD friends. He was stone sober after I was so drunk I couldn't walk and wanted to pass out. It wasn't just trying to finger me. I guess that night people kinda saw what was going on and still didn't do anything. Took me a while the next day to remember everything that had gone on, after people had told me what they'd seen. There were plenty of people who wanted to just kick his ass. People who could've done it and not been found or caught. I called the cops, but didn't file a report. Just asked questions. I should've filed a report. I should've taken his ass to court. But ya know what? I didn't. And he's disappeared. The large amount of friends we shared pretty much told him to fuck off. I don't think anyone knows where he is. Not sure. Did he learn anything? I don't know. But he's not here anymore. Go with the people who are saying confront him if you want, but about the issues you have of not trusting him. IF you do it in a public place, make sure that people are willing to back YOU up if he tries anything. Otherwise, tell him you want to have a mature talk about what happened, and KEEP it mature. __________________ Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken ....absence makes me miss him more...