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Originally Posted by rajc
i had that problem as well she was always like "i don t like it raj" so what i did was stop going down on her. I made her really really wet, kissing softly, playing with her tits, rubbing the clit etc etc and would teas as i was gonna go down on her. Then i would just have sex with her. Few days later she bagged me to go down on her and i said "you get what you give" and yeah it worked fine.
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so, she did it only because she wanted you to go down on her? it doesn't really sound like she did it because she wanted to... but maybe that wasn't a problem for the two of you.
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anyway, i am in agreement with those who said that you need to be patient. been there, done that. she most likely feels insecure about it, and pressuring her doesn't help. it might also help if you take a positive attitude toward fellatio; i know people who say things like "suck my d*ck!" and then expect women to be comfortable doing that for them. the way fellatio is portrayed in society and pornography often makes it seem like the person performing fellatio is in a submissive position and that the reciever is in power. it's also often seen to be a demeaning thing for women to do, and those cultural pressures are hard to overcome for some.
if she wants to do it she will do it eventually. just be sure to have a positive attitude about it and give her space and time. but try not to fixate on that; i'm sure you can find many other satisfying things to do with her.